Gyant Unplugged

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Wow! Where do I start? It’s funny to me this blogging thing. Gyant asked me when I met him if I was ready for this? At the time I didn’t really pay it any attention cus’ I’m always ready for whatever, I’m fearless, a bit of a thrill seeker and have been since birth. He told me people would turn on me, get mad at me, hate me and some would love me, etc. Being the woman I am I was like cool, it’s whatever, you see I never really cared what people thought of me and still don’t everyone has their opinion and honestly who gives a f*ck, I live for me and my children alone.

It’s Official…. I guess I’ve arrived blogger wise cus’ I got haters now, yayyyyyyyyyyy! Hi Haters! (*_-) in my Maino voice, lol!

I’ve been approached several times in the past by many different people to do gossip, blogging or something similar and I’ve always said no because i didn’t want to be the one maliciously telling people’s business etc. under some pseudonym (fake name) and then sitting up with them while they try to figure out who it is that’s telling their dirt. That’s not real and if you know me you know that I’m as real as they come. So I decided to start blogging for GyantUnplugged and it’s why my blog is called Keep It Music or K.I.M, which spells my name because I’m not saying nothing under any fake pretenses, I’m not making anything up or telling lies, the stuff you hear from me is either my opinion on a topic or it is truth and the truth is absolute so no one can ever come back and question me on it. A lot of people can’t handle it, but it is what it is.

I told you guys in my bio that I was not going to say names in my blogs and that’s more so to protect the innocent (those that know nothing about what’s going on) than anything else. On rare occasions I might say a name but that’s only if I have that person’s permission or just don’t like them and don’t really care (how real is that). I can’t help it if someone else associated with a person I’m talking about decides to act a damn fool and let’s the cat out the bag to everyone. That is and never was my intention or I could just use people’s name directly in the first place. I know enough dirt to write 5 books, those that know me know!

The other thing I can’t help is people’s conscious, people know when they’re not doing something right and it’s funny because my “F You Pay Me” blog must have touched a lot of people because they thought i was talking about them when I can honestly tell you that no one in particular was the muse for that blog it’s just something that had been on my mind for a while. It’s funny how you can write some anonymous general blog and people take it as directed to them specifically. That’s not me people that’s God, you know you’re doing wrong maybe I’m just the conduit to make you see it clearly. How about you stop getting mad at the messenger, take heed to the message and do something about it or do nothing at all, it’s up to you but calling Gyant or me asking if I’m talking about you is pointless cus’ what if I was, would it change anything.

I said in my bio I’m REAL and I’m going to speak the TRUTH even if it bodies you what I left out was that I’ll speak it even if it bodies ME! You see I live my life consciously thus having no regrets or embarrassment about anything I do so no one can ever extort, scare me or besmirch my character. Anything I’ve done I’d probably do again because it’s all made me the remarkable woman I am. I said all that to say this, in my “Cheating Men In The Industry” blog, I was the other woman in one of those stories and I’m not embarrassed or ashamed about it. I’m a writer and just like song writers and authors I will sometimes use pieces of my own life if they apply to whatever I’m blogging about. Seems like I upset someone when I wrote that blog funny thing is the person screaming isn’t even the guy, it’s another person and while they were included in the blog too, again if no one had said anything no one would know who it was if they even know now.

So after hearing about the little blogger beefs and seeing the little thing with who Gyant calls the angry lesbian (Sandra Rose) and Necole Bitchie and some bullsh*t with one of my haters and since I decided to enter this arena of blogging let me tell yall a little bit about me myself, cus’ I don’t play those childish games and who can give it to you better than me?

Some people like to call me old, God willing I’ll be 39 in September; don’t I look good for my age (refer to the photo up top) and I do accept birthday gifts (*_-), I’m partial to shoes and purses but gift cards are always welcome too! Lol! What else, I have 4 kids, all by the same man, my ex-husband who used to be pretty big on the other side of the law, he’s legit now. I was engaged to a NFL player but I couldn’t marry him cus’ I wasn’t really in love with him (I don’t give a f*ck about the contract, how real is that). I’ve dated 2 rappers in my life, 1 when I was 16 and the other not that long ago. I turned down one of the richest men in the world, according to Forbes Magazine his family is ranked in the top 30 and by that I’m sure you can tell he’s not in entertainment (I don’t have to chase gold, it chases me and I make no decision based on money!).

I’m educated (a corporate accountant) and I’ve traveled the world. I’m an independent woman (Ne-yo remix version, WHAT!) For some odd reason I attract successful, hi-profile men, I would like to say it’s my spirit and/or aura but honestly it’s probably because by society’s standards I’m considered beautiful by most and most successful men like beautiful things…. I like to say I’m just splashy. Some people think I’m stuck up or bougie (sp) but that’s usually until you get to know me (on the low, I can be really hood, I talk mad slang, hang with a bunch of guys, but I’m always a lady). Some women (usually insecure women) don’t like me off the top cus’ they think I’m conceited; I know I’m cute but it’s no big deal, I’m fly as a mothaf*cka on the inside though and I can strip a car (the stories I could tell…smh). I’m loyal to a fault and If I like you I’ll do anything for you, if I don’t like you I wont f*ck with you in any capacity. I hate liars and love real people.

I’m friends with tons of people mostly men in the music industry and professional sports, I’m not promiscuous, don’t have casual relationships and I’ve turned down more men than you’ll ever know but I am respected by them all, ask around. I can’t be tricked into doing anything, can’t be led and I’m not a follower (except on Twitter). There will never be any ass out crazy looking pictures of me popping up on the internet or anywhere else.
If you know me, you probably like/love me, if you don’t know me you probably think I’m a bitch (don’t judge a book by it’s cover, I’m really a sweetheart), If you don’t like me it’s probably because you don’t know me or you listened to song dumb chick who doesn’t really know me either. If you want to know anything else, hit me up on Twitter. And to my haters… hating me won’t make you any better, try looking within.

IN CLOSING: I’m the realest mothaf*cka out here and I told yall that before! You might not like me but you can’t help but RESPECT ME cus’ I don’t give a flying f*ck what anyone thinks and I DON’T LIE!

Now that that’s out the way, let’s get back to talking about this music ish!

K.I.M

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